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Two Years :)

My girl Lillian turned two on June 7. She’s the sweetest of sweet – Courtney and I constantly find ourselves in disbelief at how cute she is. She’s stolen our hearts just like her brother did before her.

I leave the house on wedding days and she says things like, “Daddy…..shooooot…a bedding?”

It melts our hearts.

When she gets tired, she loves to snuggle up near our necks, and she sucks a thumb on one hand and with the other hand pinches the skin on our necks. It’s so cute, but when it gets unbearable we ask her to stop and she does it to herself instead. If you ever see her standing around with her thumb in her mouth and her hand pinching the skin on her neck or someone else’s, you know it’s naptime.

We love this little girl more than words can describe.

Parenting is hard but it’s brought a whole new level of fulfillment. I used to hope for happiness all the time, but I’ve come to realize that the trials and difficulties we experience in parenting and marriage and life in general bring something better than constant happiness – they bring fulfillment. The challenges become plot points on our life story, and conquering them with our loved ones brings a fulfillment that’s more satisfying than being in a state of constant happiness could ever produce. Choosing to live life with Courtney and have the kids we’ve had has deepened the coffers of my heart, and allowed me to feel a satisfaction that I never would have thought possible.

Happy birthday, Lillian Heart.

Kristen and Joe on Wedding Chicks

Many of you know I shot my sister’s wedding back in September. It was an incredible experience – definitely the highlight of 2011 for me. Seeing my sister marry an incredible man and having my entire family in one place and having an absolute blast was…beyond words.

On that day I was a groomsman AND their photographer, and I wouldn’t have had it any other way.

I’d been waiting to blog it until it was published, and here it is…Kristen and Joe’s wedding on Wedding Chicks. It’ll be up next on my website.

By the way, since I obviously couldn’t be in any photos involving the bridal party and my family, Kelsey was my right-hand woman on Kristen’s wedding day. Kelsey is my associate, and it says a lot about her abilities that I trusted her with so much of my sister’s wedding. She did an INCREDIBLE job.

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My kiddos

These two bring me so much joy and fulfillment it’s crazy. Parenting is tough – don’t get me wrong. So is marriage. But like marriage, with the increased responsibility and connection to another human being comes a huge increase in fulfillment.

Things sure have changed for me. I used to love going out of town, having lots of freedom, etc. But now, after about 6 hours of my wife and kids not being around, I’m missing them. Life feels kinda dull. Even when there’s more to do, more excitement to take part in, if my family isn’t around there’s just something significant missing.

Cameron is three now, and Lillian just turned one. Courtney and I love being their parents. I hope they always understand how deep our love for them is.